I am not sure if I should call them young women or girls,
so I decided to call them young mothers. There were 2 such mothers one was 13
yrs old, who I delivered in 1961, and the other was 12 years who I delivered in
a western country in 1965.
The 13 year girl was a very sweet and innocent girl, who
has not yet had her first period. I do not know if she knew anything about
period’s and where did baby’s came from. Her Mum and Dad had to go interstate
to attend a wedding so they left her alone at home with a 16 year male cousin
for four days. During the time they were away, the teenagers must have explored
sexual experiments. Nothing happened after that. Suddenly nine months after
that she was in labour, her mother realised what was going on. On a very hot
summer day they (her parents) rugged her in a big thick blanket and brought her
to the hospital. I was surprised that nobody noticed anything for all these
nine months. I had come across a similar incidence in Dorset, UK when two teenage
sisters were trying to protect each other, the younger sister had a baby, who
was flushed down the toilet, I was called on a flying squad when the placenta
did not come out and the young girl was bleeding. It was in the country, they
had no electricity and no running water. Will I ever forget this day? Luckily, I
had water, a big light an anethesist, and blood for transfusion. I removed the placenta,
gave her a blood transfusion, put a few sutures into her torn outside and saved
her life. In This case her mother was never aware that all this was going on.
Now going back to my original 13 year old, I delivered
her easily, with tender loving care without stressing her. She had an
episiotomy which was sutured. In our college the rule was that couples who are
waiting for adoption can be invited for it, after bringing to the attention of
the mother, the two can meet outside the hospital gate and do the exchange. We
had no legal involvement in this. I told her mother, if anybody asks her what
happened to her daughter just tell them she had a cyst on the ovary. By doing all this I hope I a saved a lot of
trauma for a young innocent girl.
The second teenage mother was only 12. She was very
mature looking. The school had gone on a picnic with many boys and girls. The
little girl called Debbie also had never had a period as yet but she had had
some sex education at the school. They played during the picnic as a group not
one on one. Debbie started to be very ill after the picnic and they found out
that she was four months pregnant, this fitted with the date of the picnic.
Nobody could work out who the father was. Later on during pregnancy she became
very ill with toxaemia of pregnancy. She had to be in hospital for a week. We successfully
induced her at 37 weeks; a male baby weighing 7 pounds 2 ounces was born in
good condition, both the mother and baby did well, there were as far as I know,
no legal issues. Debbie was their only child and her mother was very happy to
look after her grandson.